Top 20 Questions to ask on your Preschool Tour
Choosing the right preschool can feel overwhelming—especially if it’s your first time. We understand how important it is to find a program where your child will thrive and your family feels supported every step of the way. To help you navigate the decision with confidence, we’ve created a list of essential questions to ask on any preschool tour.
Not only will these questions guide meaningful conversations, but we’ve also explained why each one matters—so you can better understand what to look for and what to expect. And to make things even easier, we’ve included Bright Beginnings’ own answers so you can see how our school sets a high standard for quality care and early education.
1. What is your student/teacher ratio?
💡 Why This Matters:
A low student-to-teacher ratio ensures your child gets the attention, support, and supervision they need to feel safe, engaged, and successful. It also contributes to smoother classroom management, stronger teacher-child relationships, and more individualized learning opportunities.
🌟 Bright Beginnings' Answer:
At Bright Beginnings, our ratios meet or exceed the standards set by Virginia licensing. In our infant classrooms, we maintain a 4:1 ratio. For toddlers the ratio is 5:1, 8:1 for our twos classroom , and our preschool classrooms do not exceed 10:1. We keep class sizes small to prioritize quality interactions, developmental support, and meaningful relationships.
2. Are you licensed and accredited?
💡 Why This Matters:
Licensed centers are held to rigorous state regulations for safety, health, sanitation, and teacher qualifications. Licensing ensures the school is monitored, inspected, and held accountable—giving families peace of mind. Accreditation, while optional, demonstrates a commitment to going above and beyond basic compliance.
🌟 Bright Beginnings' Answer:
Yes, Bright Beginnings is fully licensed by the Virginia Department of Education. This means we meet strict health, safety, staff training, and supervision requirements. We take pride in not just meeting—but exceeding—licensing standards in our care, communication, and curriculum. We also pursue additional certifications and partnerships that strengthen our commitment to excellence.
3. How do you handle discipline?
💡 Why This Matters:
Discipline policies should reflect a school’s values. Some programs use time-outs or reward charts, while others use redirection, emotional coaching, or restorative approaches. It's essential to choose a school whose behavior guidance strategies align with your parenting philosophy.
🌟 Bright Beginnings' Answer:
At Bright Beginnings, we use positive guidance rooted in social-emotional learning. Our teachers model respectful communication and help children identify their feelings, make safe choices, and resolve conflicts peacefully. We do not use time-outs, shame, or punitive measures. Instead, we partner with families to support each child’s emotional growth with consistency and compassion.
4. Does my child need to be potty-trained?
💡 Why This Matters:
Potty training is a developmental milestone that happens at a different pace for every child. A program that requires children to be fully potty-trained may place unnecessary pressure on families or exclude children who aren't ready.
🌟 Bright Beginnings' Answer:
No, your child does not need to be potty-trained to join our program. We believe in meeting children where they are developmentally. Our classrooms have age-appropriate bathrooms and supportive staff who help children transition at their own pace. We work closely with families to make potty training a positive and collaborative experience when the child shows readiness.
5. How many teachers are CPR and First Aid certified?
💡 Why This Matters:
Emergencies can happen anywhere, anytime. A well-prepared school ensures that staff are trained to respond quickly and effectively in medical situations. The more staff who are trained, the safer your child will be.
🌟 Bright Beginnings' Answer:
At Bright Beginnings, every classroom has at least one teacher who is certified in pediatric CPR and First Aid—and most of our team is certified. We ensure all certifications are renewed regularly, and we conduct internal safety drills and trainings so our team feels confident and prepared in any emergency situation.
6. How much time do children spend outside each day?
💡 Why This Matters:
Outdoor play is essential for healthy development. It supports motor skills, imagination, social-emotional growth, and physical health. A school that prioritizes nature and unstructured outdoor time shows its commitment to whole-child learning.
🌟 Bright Beginnings’ Answer:
At Bright Beginnings, children go outside twice every day—rain or shine (with appropriate gear!). Our outdoor areas are designed for play, exploration, and hands-on learning. In addition to free play, we integrate gardening, nature walks, and outdoor STEAM activities that bring the classroom experience outside. We believe the best learning happens in motion, in nature, and with friends.
7. What curriculum or educational philosophy do you use?
💡 Why This Matters:
The curriculum determines how your child will be taught and what values guide that approach. Whether it's Montessori, Reggio Emilia, play-based, or academic, it's important that the school’s teaching philosophy aligns with your values and your child’s needs.
🌟 Bright Beginnings’ Answer:
Our approach blends the best of Reggio Emilia, Montessori, nature-based learning, and a play-based, developmentally appropriate curriculum. We focus on whole-child development—nurturing not just academics, but creativity, social-emotional intelligence, and independence. We also embed emergent learning, allowing children’s interests to guide rich, inquiry-based experiences.
8. Are meals or snacks provided?
💡 Why This Matters:
Understanding what's provided (and what’s not) helps you plan daily routines and know what to pack. It also gives insight into the school’s nutrition policies and attention to children’s dietary needs.
🌟 Bright Beginnings’ Answer:
At Bright Beginnings, families pack two snacks and a lunch each day to honor each child’s dietary needs, cultural food traditions, and individual preferences. This ensures that meals feel familiar and comforting. While we don’t provide food, we do have a fun tradition—afternoon “pick-up snacks”! Parents are welcome to grab a fresh piece of fruit or a granola bar from the front table for the ride home. It’s our way of saying thank you and creating a small moment of connection at the end of your child’s day.
9. How does the school handle food allergies and dietary restrictions?
💡 Why This Matters:
Food allergies can be life-threatening. Even mild sensitivities require clear systems and attentive staff. A strong allergy policy signals that the program takes children's safety seriously.
🌟 Bright Beginnings’ Answer:
Children with allergies sit at clearly marked allergy-friendly tables or chairs, and all staff are trained on allergy protocols. Our goal is to keep every child safe while also fostering inclusion.
10. What enrichment programs or extra activities do you offer?
💡 Why This Matters:
Great preschools go beyond the basics. Enrichment programs—like music, art, or language—support deeper engagement, offer new experiences, and give children the chance to explore their interests and talents.
🌟 Bright Beginnings’ Answer:
We offer free mini enrichment classes during the school year, in subjects such as Spanish, yoga, music, and art. In the warmer months, our outdoor classroom includes botany lessons, sensory exploration, and nature-based science. These programs are part of our commitment to joyful learning and giving every child the opportunity to discover what they love.
11. What security systems or check-in/check-out procedures are in place?
💡 Why This Matters:
Safety is non-negotiable. A secure entry system and a clear plan for drop-off and pick-up ensure that only approved adults can access the building and that children are accounted for at all times.
🌟 Bright Beginnings’ Answer:
Security is a top priority. Each location is equipped with keypad entry or secure buzz-in systems, and all visitors must be verified before entering. Families use a digital check-in system that logs drop-off and pick-up times. Children are only released to authorized adults listed on their emergency contact forms. We also conduct routine safety drills and staff training to ensure everyone knows what to do in case of an emergency.
12. What is the average teacher tenure and experience level?
💡 Why This Matters:
Consistency matters to young children. Schools with high teacher turnover may struggle to build strong relationships with families and maintain a stable classroom environment.
🌟 Bright Beginnings’ Answer:
Our teachers are the heart of our program. Many of our lead teachers have been with us for 5–10+ years, and our assistant teachers often return year after year. We foster a strong culture of professional development, mentorship, and respect—because we know that when teachers feel supported, children thrive. Long tenure means deep relationships, trust, and continuity for your child.
13. What is your school’s mission or educational philosophy?
💡 Why This Matters:
A program’s philosophy is the foundation of its decisions—how teachers interact with children, what’s prioritized in the curriculum, and how families are engaged. You want to be sure your values align.
🌟 Bright Beginnings’ Answer:
Our philosophy is rooted in six core values: Nurture, Play, Trust, Family, Communicate, and Learn. We believe in whole-child development—balancing emotional growth, intellectual curiosity, and physical activity. Our classrooms are rich with play-based, hands-on learning inspired by Montessori, Reggio Emilia, and nature-based education. Families are not just welcomed—they are partners in everything we do.
14. What are your hours of operation and tuition rates?
💡 Why This Matters:
You need to know if the schedule works with your family’s needs and whether tuition is sustainable for your budget. Clarity upfront helps avoid surprises down the line.
🌟 Bright Beginnings’ Answer:
Bright Beginnings is open Monday through Friday from 7:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. at all locations. We offer full-time enrollment only, allowing us to maintain consistent routines and relationships for the children in our care. Tuition rates are the same across all sites and are shared transparently during your tour or initial inquiry.
15. Will my child be ready for kindergarten after graduating? (Is this more of a preschool or a daycare?)
💡 Why This Matters:
Not all early childhood programs are the same. Some offer basic supervision, while others deliver structured, intentional learning. You want to ensure your child is developing the skills—social, emotional, and academic—that will prepare them for a successful transition to elementary school.
🌟 Bright Beginnings’ Answer:
Bright Beginnings is a preschool-first program, not a daycare. While we offer warm, nurturing care, our curriculum is intentional, developmentally appropriate, and aligned with Virginia’s Early Learning Standards. Our Pre-K students graduate with strong foundations in early literacy, math, problem-solving, independence, and emotional intelligence. Teachers communicate regularly with families to track growth and ensure kindergarten readiness every step of the way.
16. How do you support social-emotional learning and conflict resolution?
💡 Why This Matters:
Social-emotional development is just as important as academics in the early years. You want a program that helps children recognize emotions, navigate friendships, and build resilience.
🌟 Bright Beginnings’ Answer:
We place a strong emphasis on social-emotional learning (SEL) every day. Teachers model respectful communication, help children name and navigate big feelings, and guide them through problem-solving and peaceful conflict resolution. Our classrooms use tools like visual calm-down areas, feeling charts, and emotional coaching to help children build empathy, self-regulation, and confidence.
17. How do you communicate with families about daily activities and developmental progress?
💡 Why This Matters:
Transparent, regular communication keeps families informed, connected, and confident in their child’s experience. It also gives parents insight into developmental growth and how to support learning at home. It’s important to ask how often staff are expected to communicate—some programs post daily photos and notes, while others provide only occasional updates.
🌟 Bright Beginnings’ Answer:
We currently use Kangaroo Time, a secure communication app, to share daily updates on meals, naps, activities, and more. Beginning next school year, we’ll be transitioning to Procare Connect, which offers even more robust features. Families receive daily progress updates, and we prioritize open, ongoing communication through check-ins, email, and family-teacher meetings. We believe in honest, two-way communication that builds trust and strong relationships.
18. What does a typical day look like in my child’s age group?
💡 Why This Matters:
A predictable daily rhythm supports learning, behavior, and emotional regulation. It also shows how time is balanced between play, learning, meals, rest, and outdoor time.
🌟 Bright Beginnings’ Answer:
Each day at Bright Beginnings follows a familiar routine with plenty of room for curiosity and creativity. Mornings include circle time, centers, outdoor play, and hands-on learning aligned with developmental goals. After lunch and quiet rest time, children enjoy enrichment activities and a second outdoor play session. While schedules vary slightly by age, all classrooms balance structure and flexibility to support both security and exploration.
19. How are transitions between classrooms or age groups handled?
💡 Why This Matters:
Children thrive on consistency. A thoughtful transition plan ensures your child feels safe, known, and confident as they grow into new environments or routines.
🌟 Bright Beginnings’ Answer:
Transitions at Bright Beginnings are gentle, gradual, and always child-centered. We communicate with families well in advance and allow children to visit their new classroom multiple times before the official move. Teachers collaborate to share insights, and children bring familiar routines and comfort items with them. We aim to make every transition feel like an exciting next step—not a disruption.
20. How do you support children with differing learning styles or needs (e.g., speech delays, neurodivergence)?
💡 Why This Matters:
All children learn and grow differently. A great preschool recognizes this and adapts its approach to meet a range of needs with compassion, expertise, and inclusion.
🌟 Bright Beginnings’ Answer:
We believe in inclusive education that celebrates every child’s unique strengths and needs. Our teachers are trained to recognize developmental differences and collaborate with families to create supportive routines and environments. We welcome children with diverse learning profiles, and we’re happy to coordinate with outside specialists (speech therapists, occupational therapists, etc.) when needed. Every child deserves to feel safe, capable, and known—and we’re committed to making that happen.
✺ SMART QUESTIONS MOST PARENTS FORGET TO ASK ✺
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Teachers who feel valued and supported tend to stay longer, build stronger relationships, and provide more consistent care. This question gives you a glimpse into the school's leadership and staff culture.
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Every school faces staff absences, but how they handle them reveals a lot about organization and consistency. You want to know that your child won’t experience chaos if their teacher is out.
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Children thrive in environments where their identities are affirmed. This question reveals whether the school respects and celebrates family diversity and lived experiences.
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All children have tough moments. This question helps you understand how teachers respond—with calm, compassion, or control. A school’s emotional philosophy often shows up most clearly in these moments.
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Scraped knees and bumps are inevitable. How a school handles them shows their attentiveness, communication practices, and emergency readiness.
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Technology use varies widely from one program to the next. Some schools use screens daily, while others avoid them entirely. Knowing how (and why) a school uses technology helps families decide if it aligns with their values and expectations.